Everything That Has Gone Wrong With Taylor Frankie Paul

Everything That Has Gone Wrong With Taylor Frankie Paul — A Timeline — Brewtiful Living
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Everything That Has
Gone Wrong With
Taylor Frankie Paul.

A timeline. With receipts. In chronological order. We are not being diplomatic about any of it.

By Sara Alba · Brewtiful Living · May 2, 2026 · Culture
Current Status Mutual restraining orders, three years. Bachelorette: cancelled. Production: paused. Custody: unresolved. Next court date: June 1. The lip tattoo: still out there.
The Situation

Let's Get Everyone Up to Speed — Quickly

Taylor Frankie Paul is a 31-year-old content creator and star of Hulu's The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, a show about a group of women in Utah who are very online, very beautiful, and — it turns out — very good at generating headlines that nobody could have predicted when the show premiered in 2024. Taylor was the breakout star. She had the most dramatic storyline. She had the charisma. She had the fanbase.

She also had Dakota Mortensen. And therein lies the problem. Or rather: therein lies the very long, very documented, still-ongoing, court-scheduled, production-halting problem that we are about to walk through in full. Pour something. You're going to need it.

This is not a both-sides piece. The receipts exist. The court documents exist. The TMZ footage exists. The judge's comments — delivered on the record, in open court, with cameras present because Taylor tried to get them removed and the judge said no — also exist. We are going to go through all of it.

Taylor tried to seal the hearing and keep cameras out of the courtroom. The judge said no. The cameras rolled. The judge then said he thinks they still have "an attraction to each other." This is the TFP situation in three sentences.

The Timeline

In Chronological Order, Because There Is a Lot

February 2023
The Barstool Incident
Taylor Frankie Paul is involved in a domestic incident with Dakota Mortensen. TMZ later obtains and releases footage showing her throwing metal barstools at him while one of her children — not their shared son, who hadn't been born yet, but a child from her previous marriage — is present in the room and begins to cry. She is arrested.
2023 — Later That Year
The Guilty Plea
Taylor pleads guilty in abeyance to felony aggravated assault. She is placed on probation until August 2026. This is not a secret. This is discussed at length in Season 1 of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. The audience knows. Disney knows. ABC, apparently, will also eventually know — right before it becomes a problem for them specifically.
2024
SLOMW Season 1 Airs. TFP Becomes a Star.
The show is a hit. Taylor is the breakout. She and Dakota are on-again, off-again. They have a son together, Ever — a name choice that is doing a lot of work in this story. The drama is compelling television. The audience is very invested. The producers are very pleased. Nobody is thinking about what comes next. They should be thinking about what comes next.
Early 2026
ABC Casts Taylor Frankie Paul as The Bachelorette
In what will become one of the more spectacular casting decisions in recent reality television history, ABC selects Taylor Frankie Paul as the lead of The Bachelorette. The season is filmed. The premiere is scheduled for March 22, 2026. Promotional materials are presumably made. People are presumably excited. Someone at ABC has presumably not fully thought this through.
February 22–23, 2026
Another Domestic Incident
Taylor and Dakota are involved in another domestic incident at her home. Dakota later alleges that Taylor choked him and shoved him into a window while their son Ever was present. He says he called 911 but Taylor "pressured and manipulated" him into telling dispatch the child was sick so the call would end. A friend of Dakota's separately calls police after noticing visible injuries. An active Utah Division of Child and Family Services investigation is opened. Taylor's team alleges Dakota drove off with her in the car against her wishes, leaving their son home alone. Both parties have allegations. Both parties have documentation. It is, by any measure, not great.
March 19, 2026
TMZ Releases the 2023 Footage
TMZ publishes the barstool video from 2023. The footage, which shows Taylor throwing metal barstools at Dakota with a child in the room, goes immediately viral. ABC is watching this happen approximately three days before the Bachelorette premiere.
March 2026 — Days Before Premiere
ABC Pulls The Bachelorette Season
ABC cancels Taylor Frankie Paul's season of The Bachelorette days before it was scheduled to air. The statement from Taylor's spokesperson says she has been "silently suffering extensive mental and physical abuse for years" and is "finally gaining the strength to face her accuser." ABC's statement is more concise. The season does not air. The 25-ish men who filmed an entire season of television are not having their best week.
March 20, 2026
Dakota Files a Restraining Order
Dakota Mortensen files a protective order against Taylor in Utah, detailing the February 2026 incidents. He also demands sole custody of Ever. His attorney later states: "Why did he wait so long to do anything? The answer is because he was afraid of the force that would happen against him." He is also, separately, tattooing Taylor's initials on the inside of his lip and sending her photos of it. We will return to this.
Also March 2026
Taylor's Ex-Husband Is Also at the Courthouse
TMZ reports that when Dakota goes to the Utah courthouse to file his protective order, he runs into Taylor's ex-husband Tate Paul — who is also there, separately, to obtain a protective order against Taylor. They did not coordinate. They just both happened to show up at the courthouse on the same day, at the same time, for the same purpose. There are no words. There are only receipts.
April 2026
Taylor Files a Restraining Order Against Dakota
About an hour before a scheduled court hearing on Dakota's order, Taylor files her own temporary protective order against him. Her filing alleges a "pattern of abusive conduct and coercive control" and details four incidents. Her lawyer describes the filing as "hot off the presses." The temporary order requires Dakota to stay at least 100 feet away from Taylor until the April 30 hearing. We are now in mutual restraining order territory.
The Lip Tattoo (Undated, Reportedly Recent)
The Lip Tattoo
Dakota Mortensen, during the period when this relationship was producing protective orders and court appearances, tattooed Taylor's initials on the inside of his lip and sent her photos of it. This happened. This is in the court documents. We are including it here because it belongs in the timeline and because no piece about this situation is complete without it.
April 30, 2026
The Hearing. The Judge. The Cameras. The Quote.
Taylor and Dakota appear in court in Utah for their custody and restraining order hearing. Taylor had tried to seal the proceedings and ban cameras. The judge said no. Cameras rolled. For nearly two hours, their legal teams go back and forth. The judge — Utah third district court commissioner Russell Minas — ultimately extends both restraining orders for three years and delivers a statement that requires no additional commentary: "I am just concerned that if I don't order both of them to stay away from each other, there's going to be some additional problems. Right now, you two need to stay away from each other. And there needs to be orders that will result in consequences if you attempt to try and engage each other because I still think you have this attraction to each other." No custody decision was made. Next hearing: June 1.

"I still think you have this attraction to each other." Said by a judge. In court. On the record. After extending both of their restraining orders for three years. This is the situation.

The Full Damage Report

Everything That Is Currently Wrong — Listed

The TFP Situation — Complete Inventory
⚖️ 2023 felony aggravated assault guilty plea. Still on probation until August 2026. Filmed and aired a full season of television during this period. Was cast as the lead of a major network dating show during this period.
📺 The Bachelorette: cancelled. An entire season filmed. 25-ish men flew somewhere nice. None of it aired. ABC pulled it days before the premiere.
📋 Mutual restraining orders, three years. Both parties filed against each other. Both were granted. Both are now legally required to stay away from each other for three years.
🏛️ Two different exes at the courthouse on the same day. Dakota and Taylor's ex-husband Tate were both there to file protective orders against Taylor. Did not coordinate. Just happened.
💋 The lip tattoo. Dakota tattooed Taylor's initials inside his lip during this period and sent her photos. This is in court documents. We are not embellishing.
🎬 SLOMW production: paused. Cameras are not currently rolling. Dakota is reportedly done with the show. Taylor is expected to return, eventually, to a show that is currently on hold because of the situation.
👶 Custody of Ever: unresolved. No decision was made at the April 30 hearing. Both parties told to continue toward mediation. Next court date June 1. The child's name is Ever.
📸 Vanderpump Villa edits Dakota out of Season 3. He had a brief storyline. It is now gone. He is also appearing on the Alex Cooper-backed Unwell Winter Games, which is a sentence that exists.
Judge Russell Minas · April 30, 2026 · On The Record

"I am just concerned that if I don't order both of them to stay away from each other, there's going to be some additional problems. Right now, you two need to stay away from each other. And there needs to be orders that will result in consequences if you attempt to try and engage each other because I still think you have this attraction to each other."

Said while extending both of their restraining orders for three years.

The Bigger Picture

What This Means for Mormon Wives

Here is the genuinely interesting question underneath all of this, which is: what happens to The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives? The show that made Taylor Frankie Paul famous is currently paused because of the situation between Taylor and Dakota. Dakota is reportedly out. Taylor is reportedly coming back, eventually.

But "eventually" requires production to resume. Production requires a cast. The cast includes people who are also processing the fact that their co-star's romantic storyline has produced two sets of restraining orders, a cancelled Bachelorette season, a lip tattoo, and a judge who felt the need to tell two adults, on camera, in open court, that they need to stay away from each other because he is concerned about their continued attraction.

Season 1 was compelling because the drama was messy but manageable. Season 2, whenever it happens, will have to figure out what to do with a cast member who is on probation for felony assault, who has three-year mutual restraining orders with the man she was dating for most of the show's run, and who is still in an unresolved custody battle with the same man. This is either a production nightmare or the best television since the invention of television. There is no middle ground.

The Note We Have to Include

Domestic violence situations are serious and the allegations on both sides in this case are serious. This piece documents public court proceedings and published reporting. If you or someone you know is affected by domestic violence, the National Domestic Violence Hotline is available at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or text START to 88788.

📺
Bachelorette seasons aired
Zero.
📋
Active restraining orders
Two. Mutual. Three years.
🏛️
Exes at courthouse same day
Two. Uncoordinated.
💋
Lip tattoos of her initials
One. Documented.
👶
Custody resolved
Not yet. June 1.
Brewtiful verdict
This is a lot.
The Bottom Line

Where This Leaves Us

Taylor Frankie Paul is, by any objective measure, one of the most compelling figures in reality television right now. Not because of the show — though the show is good — but because her actual life has become a thing that happens in public, on camera, in courtrooms, and in court documents that journalists obtain and publish.

The judge told her and Dakota to stay away from each other because he thinks they're still attracted to each other. This was said out loud. In court. On the record. After everything. After the barstools. After the cancelled Bachelorette. After the February incident. After the competing protective orders. After the two different exes at the courthouse on the same day. After the lip tattoo. After all of that, the judge felt the need to mention the attraction.

The next hearing is June 1. Production on Mormon Wives is paused. Dakota is reportedly out. Taylor is reportedly coming back. The baby's name is Ever. The lip tattoo is permanent.

We will update this as it develops. It will develop.

People Also Ask

On April 30, 2026, Taylor Frankie Paul and Dakota Mortensen appeared in Utah court for a custody and restraining order hearing. The judge extended mutual restraining orders for three years, ordered both parties to stay away from each other, and stated on the record that he believed they still had "an attraction to each other." No custody decision was made regarding their son Ever. The next hearing is June 1, 2026.
ABC cancelled Taylor Frankie Paul's season of The Bachelorette days before its March 22, 2026 premiere after TMZ released 2023 footage of a domestic incident between Paul and Dakota Mortensen. The footage showed Paul throwing metal barstools at Mortensen while one of her children was present. Paul had previously pleaded guilty to felony aggravated assault in connection with that incident and was on probation at the time of the cancellation.
Production on The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives Season 2 was paused following the domestic violence allegations and legal proceedings between Taylor Frankie Paul and Dakota Mortensen. As of May 2026, Taylor is expected to return to the show but Dakota Mortensen is unlikely to appear in future seasons. The show streams on Hulu and no premiere date for Season 2 has been announced.
Dakota Mortensen is the ex-boyfriend of Taylor Frankie Paul and father of their son Ever. He appeared in The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives as part of Taylor's storyline. In 2026, both he and Taylor filed mutual restraining orders following a February 2026 domestic incident. He appeared on the Unwell Winter Games and was edited out of Vanderpump Villa Season 3. He also tattooed Taylor's initials on the inside of his lip during their relationship — a detail that is in court documents.
Utah third district court commissioner Russell Minas stated at the April 30 hearing: "I am just concerned that if I don't order both of them to stay away from each other, there's going to be some additional problems. Right now, you two need to stay away from each other. And there needs to be orders that will result in consequences if you attempt to try and engage each other because I still think you have this attraction to each other." He then extended both of their restraining orders for three years.

We document the chaos. With receipts. No diplomatic framing.

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